Disclaimer: Am not talking to aliens; some girls actually don't know about this simple, evident issue, and to my surprise some of them are adults with experience.
If the guy likes you he will either...
Act upon it.
Try to woo you.
Find a million ways to approach you.
If the the guy likes you he will not....
Send mixed signals.
Let you wonder about his true colors or intentions.
If he's yet to do any of the dos and more of the don'ts, he is either..
Doesn't like you.
Doesn't like you enough.
He thinks he likes you but he does not.
stop worrying to death and stop your world from revolving around him. Stop giving him excuses just because you like him or just because you're insecure or lonely. Live your life normally as it should be and don't freaking wait up.
I know it's easier said than done but you gonna find the right guy, the guy that is meant for you to be with, eventually....and what am sure of, that guy will never let you wonder for so long.
Remember when you were a little girl, all bubbly and having a pinky mindset of your own?
Remember your first crush and how you felt all excited and hopeful about it?
Remember the first boyfriend and how you thought you'll last forever?
Remember the first disappointment, the first heartache and how deep it's carved in your heart?
Remember how you got through it and how you wore your scars proudly as trophies?
Remember seeing friends getting places without even slightly scratched or hurt the way you did. And you keep asking yourself, why me?
Remember keep going for more heartaches, and finding pleasure in pain?
Remember insecurities and not-so-cool baggage you held around for so long?
Remember fitting yourself to the single-person comfy bubble, and finding a magical consolation in solitude?
Remember pushing good people away and messing up your relationships, just because you couldn't trust or believe anymore?
Remember being lost, being apathetic, and taking a stroll in the denial land?
Remember the present that you can't seem to be able to handle anymore because you're lost, because your experience made you wiser but wearier, because you're too emotionally drained to handle your own messes?
You gonna hit the rock bottom and will rise again when it's your right time, because timing is everything.
People see you exactly the same way you see yourself.
You see yourself as a useless creature and everyone is under-appreciating you.
You have a self esteem problem, thinking less of yourself, and you'll find everyone picking on you.
You accept less of a guy and think he is what you worth, and you're a magnet for jerks.
You treat yourself as a queen and everyone will pamper you.
It's not magic; in fact when you have an idea, you involuntarily send signals to people and they treat you with whatever projected in the back of their brains.
See through yourself, believe in yourself, and know how to detect and emphasize the power points in you. And never let anyone convince you with otherwise.
Don't blame a girl when she derails.
Don't blame her for falling for the wrong guys.
Don't blame her for feeling she's worthless.
Don't blame her for loathing dreaming big
When the only dream she wishes for is a husband.
Or an independency just for the sake of it.
Don't blame her for being a merely follower.
Don't blame her apathy.
Don't blame her anger.
Don't blame a girl for being too insecure or too coward.
Don't blame her for feeling inferior
Or for wanting superiority.
Don't blame her for failing life.
Don't blame her for being an airhead
For this is the only way to get through this world.
Don't blame her for ruining some generations to come...
You know what? I 90% blame her parents, and the way she's been upbrought, and how people see her. You'll never know how these factors can do to a human being!
When you seek possibilities, the process is quite unfolded, it's more open, it's everywhere. I mean the risk, the belief in a sliver lining in every passing chance. The ups and the downs, the looking forward, the 'might be'.
And I tell you, it's cooler that way, It's a part of a human nature to be in search of something certain, to hunt. It's the bitter sweet life obstacle.
But do you know why possibility is more fun? Cause with certainty comes responsibility, comes a certain state of mind, come worries, comes complex, come expectations, come more hopes, and hardships. However, with possibilities you enjoy the hunt, the unwrapping, the peeling off of life's layer by layer. But at some point there has to be a stop.
Don't worry it'll all come naturally, and in time.